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G-spot orgasm. The big wet O.
Some women never dream to experience her. Some women chase her. But why the distance?
The G-spot orgasm that results in a wet and wild release of female ejaculatory fluid, known in more sacred terms as Amrita, is one that requires the ultimate surrender.
The Role of Safety in Female Orgasm
The intelligence of a woman's body is unlike any other. The cervix will not open if we feel emotionally closed and fearful. The urethra will not open when we feel clenched and anxious. The rectum will not open when we feel tight and exposed.
This is animal law: To protect the mouth and the pussy.
So what can we learn from the woman who wants to give birth but just can't? Or the woman who is expecting her period but just won't bleed?
The answer: The body, be it birthing or excreting, requires SAFETY.
And not the kind of safety in the form of external assurance that says “it will be ok.” Rather, the kind of deep safety that would allow you to be comfortable while naked and blindfolded without a care in the world.
Subconscious Fears That Block G-Spot Stimulation
While a woman may think she feels safe enough to squirt, there are many subconscious fears that can keep her body from fully relaxing and opening.
Here are a few common uncertainties:
How will I know? What will it feel like?
Is amrita pee? Will it have an odor?
How much will come out? With what pressure?
What will my partner think?
Will it make a mess?
The best way to answer these questions is not through research, but through experience!
Why Solitude is Key to Unlocking G-Spot Orgasms
In fact, a large amount of women are not able to access this type of orgasm until they experience it alone - making solitude a wonderful place to start.
Alone, you can be curious! You can play with edge of your orgasm without pressure to perform. You can observe your ejaculatory fluid in totality, smell and taste included. And you can even practice!
The body is a place of many mysteries with its own unique conditions. Below are some ideas around how you can work towards achieving the big O, or how you can experience more of them!
Creating the Right Environment for G-Spot Stimulation
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Lock the door, turn up the music, and silence your cellphone. The subconscious mind has a way of wandering to the land of possibilities, so you'll likely find that surrender becomes easier in the safety of completely privacy.
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Lay down a towel. If you're worried about getting wet, you're not gonna be able to get wet! A Free Bleed™ blanket is great for this, so you don't have to worry about making a mess and can focus on pleasure instead.
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WARM UP. It take the vagina 20-40 minutes to become fully aroused. After that, the g-spot is more engorged, easier to locate, more sensitive, and more pleasurable! Plus you'll have much more natural lubrication to work with.
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Try different positions. Perhaps use a Pleasure Wand that can help you reach those tricky angles, or try squatting while curling your fingers. Don't be afraid to try new things.
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Relax! You cannot force the body to open. Meaning, while you might be very active in the movements required to achieve this type of orgasm, you also need to feel relaxed enough to receive. If you find your legs, feet, shoulders, or jaws clenched, BREATHE.
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Speaking of the jaw, the pussy is known to open in harmony with the throat, making those delicious moans very valuable. It can even be helpful to engage in self-talk by speaking aloud affirmations that promote safety, ease, & permission. For example: "It is safe for me to receive.”
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Open your heart. Allow judgement, anxiety, shame, or pressure to fall away. It's possible your vagina has built some armor as your heart has navigated cycles of grief in this lifetime, causing some numbness or pain. If necessary, allow your yoni to soften and become re-sensitized slowly (yoni massage can be helpful for this), and stay present with the emotions that arise along the way.
The Sacredness of Amrita and Female Ejaculation
The Amrita orgasm is famous for a reason; having been documented and revered in the histories of cultures across the world.
If you're still stuck on the question “but what is it?” - rest knowing this...
Amrita is something that flows from the most beautiful, powerful, life generating part of your body, that is birthed solely from incredible heights of pleasure, only when your heart and body are the most opened and surrendered.
Does anything else matter?
Your blood is sacred. Your birth waters are sacred. Your nectar is sacred. Your body is sacred. Because YOU are sacred.
Making G-Spot Orgasms an Ongoing Journey
Orgasms are best not considered a goal, but a journey.
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Written by Megan Bloom
Instagram @bloomingwombs
FAQ
Which Positions Unlock G-Spot Pleasure?
To stimulate the G-spot, located on the anterior vaginal wall about 1–3 inches inside the vaginal opening, try positions that allow for consistent, upward pressure on the front wall of the vagina. Squatting or using a curved sex toy like a Pleasure Wand makes it easier to reach this erogenous zone. These positions create direct access to the anterior wall and support G-spot stimulation that can lead to vaginal orgasms or female ejaculation.
Is the G spot real?
The existence of the G-spot has been widely debated in sexual medicine and sex research, but there is growing anatomical evidence pointing to a cluster of sensitive nerve endings and erectile-like tissue along the distal anterior vaginal wall. Often referred to as the Gräfenberg spot, this area of the female genitals shares similarities with the male prostate. While not every woman may feel the same intensity, many experience female sexual pleasure here through internal stimulation of the vaginal wall.
How Do You Stimulate The G Spot?
To effectively stimulate the G-spot, apply gentle pressure toward the belly button using one or two fingers or a curved sex toy. Begin only after full female sexual arousal—the vaginal wall becomes more engorged, making the G-spot area easier to find. It’s not just about vaginal penetration, but about slow, deliberate movements that awaken this highly responsive area of the anterior vaginal wall. Combine this with breath and vocal expression for deeper sexual response.
What are some G-Spot stimulation Techniques?
To stimulate the G‑spot, apply gentle pressure on the anterior vaginal wall, about two inches inside the vaginal opening, aiming toward the belly button. Use a curved sex toy or your fingers in a slow, steady motion. This area, rich in erectile-like tissue and sensitive nerve endings, can trigger intense female sexual pleasure, including female ejaculation. Warming up is essential; full female sexual arousal helps the vaginal wall swell and become more responsive. Try squatting or lying on your back, both sex positions improve access to the g spot area. Pair with clitoral stimulation to activate the full sexual response system. Use breath, sound, and affirmations to relax the body and deepen sensation. For many, this type of internal stimulation leads to deep vaginal orgasms not reached through typical vaginal intercourse.