Pleasure Wand Guide


Crystal Pleasure Wands support you to slow down, connect, and experience self-pleasure as if you are making love to yourself. By choosing a pleasure wand in place of highly stimulating toys such as vibrators, you will open up your body to more juiciness, pleasure, love, and fulfillment through the art of slow pleasure.

The beauty and smoothness of pleasure wands evoke deep sensuality, femininity, and devotion from within. Using a wand inside your yoni allows for deep self-connection by slowing down and honouring your body & vagina.

By holding a loving intention as you use the wand, you will experience how your self-pleasure can transform & awaken you! Combining the healing vibration of crystals, the power of sexual energy, and intention, self-pleasure becomes a tool for manifestation, healing, and growth (in addition to pleasure, of course!)

In addition to the crystal healing properties of each wand, you can trust that by using a pleasure wand, you are using a body-safe toy that will not leach harmful chemicals into your yoni (as is the case with many sex toys on the market!)


How to Use Your Pleasure Wand

The Pleasure Wand is designed to internally sensually massage the yoni (vagina) or anus. You may use your wand in the following ways:

  • solo or partner play
  • slowly move the wand in & out of your yoni, bringing your awareness to the subtle sensations you experience as you do this
  • gently massage the cervix with light pressure & deep breathing
  • angle the wand to stimulate your g-spot or p-spot for pleasure (best to do this with curved pleasure wands)
  • massage your belly & inner thighs with the wand (this can be very pleasurable!)
  • play with temperature by running your wand under hot or cold water first (careful not to drop it in the sink!)
  • hold your wand to your heart, visualize infusing it with a loving intention - then insert the wand into your yoni and visualize that intention radiating into your yoni & womb


Do I Choose Traditional, Slim, or Curved?

Our straight pleasure wands (available in Traditional & Slim style) are ideal for cervical activation, meditative masturbation, and learning to become more sensitive to subtle sensations & energies while slowly moving the wand in & out of your yoni or anus. The straight wands are also great for whole body massage (i.e. massaging the inner thighs, belly, etc).

Our curved pleasure wands are designed for deeper massage & intentional stimulation of the g-spot, p-spot, internal walls of the vagina, or pressure-point release in the body.

The Slim Style Pleasure Wand is recommended for those who experience vaginal pain, tension, &/or tightness, or those exploring anal stimulation for the first time. It is also recommended for those who prefer slimmer penetration, or those who feel instinctively apprehensive about the size of the Traditional Style. Your body & intuition know best, so if you feel drawn to the Slim then trust that inner call.

The Traditional Style Pleasure Wand is our most popular wand size. It is recommended for those who prefer a “fuller” feeling &/or those who enjoy a “girthier” dildo or cock.

The Amrita Wand™ is designed specifically for g-spot (or p-spot) stimulation, and can also be used for cervical stimulation. The round bulbous end "hooks" into the g-spot to provide deeper activation & penetration, encouraging the experience of orgasm & squirting.

The Curve is designed for more "active" internal massage. This includes pressure-point massage, yoni de-armouring, anal de-armouring, prostate play, g-spot activation, and cervical stimulation.


There is no “wrong” wand to begin with. Notice how your body instinctively responds to each style. Which style excites you the most?